Domestic/Partner
Infidelity is likely the most painful and devastating event that can happen in a relationship. The fear, embarrassment and betrayal can be overwhelming. Suspecting your mate is cheating is painful and disrupting to your life. Unfortunately, once someone suspects infidelity, the majority of the time their suspicions are correct.
Every case is different and requires its own unique investigation. Sometimes a mate will show numerous signs of cheating, yet an investigation reveals only coincidences. Regardless of the outcome, however, if you are questioning your relationship; it's always better to know the truth.
Before meeting with an investigator, it's important to gather some information to assist with "catching" your mate. Pertinent information on the potential "cheater" may include, for example, the person's name, date of birth, social security number, vehicle information, local hangouts, cell phone number, e-mail address, and friends - the more information the better. This is only a brief overview of information needed to conduct a thorough investigation; as the information progresses, additional information may become necessary to conclude the investigation in a definitive way.
To keep costs down, the "victim" will need to provide the best possible hours as well as possible locations to conduct surveillance. Technology has made it harder for cheaters to evade exposure; but oftentimes it's also hard for the lay person to choose (and then navigate) the best investigative route. Most cases will require a site investigation where photographs and additional information will be obtained. A written report clearly outlining the activity of the suspected cheater should follow the completion of the investigation. Last of all, do not overlook the fact that a licensed private investigator can be powerful testimony in court, if needed.
SIGNS OF CHEATING
Becomes extremely secretive or evasive.
Easily irritated or overly argumentative.
Changes in appearance, such as a new wardrobe or a sudden gym membership.
Suspicious stains or smells on his/her clothing.
Suspicious / secretive phone calls or e-mails.
Less interest in sex or has new techniques.
Insists on more free time or alone time with friends.
Threatens to leave without reason.
Compares you to another person.
And the most important, listen to your gut! A strong nagging feeling of a cheating spouse is almost always accurate.
(However, noticing one or all of these signs of Infidelity does not guarantee that your spouse or partner is having an affair. It's not good for your relationship to start making accusations you can't prove. When confronted, a cheater will always lie. The best thing you can do is to get your facts straight, going about your daily routine and calling Integrity Assessment P.I.)
Allow Integrity Assessment PI's investigators and detectives to put together a cost-effective investigation that will work for you. We at Integrity Assessment Private Investigations aren't just private investigators, but professional investigators.
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